The Best of Times......

We enjoyed a few days having Thanksgiving with Mike, Jenna and Lizzie.....and of course Aspen.   She and Tellie are always nearby.    

And then we celebrated 60 years with comfortable seats to Kauai.    AND, of course, Jon alerted the Captain who congratulated us ( over the PA ) and we received a nice bottle of wine.   

It's a long flight, over 8 hours but we were well wined and dined and had some nice naps.  

We stayed at the Koloa Landing Resort at Poipu.   We did the hotel/car pkg thru Costco and it seems like the best deal out there.    We would definitely use that again.     We had a 'villa' which had full kitchen and washer/dryer...very very convenient, very clean and even the right TV channel to watch the Broncos lose early Sunday morning.  

It rained for 4 days.   But it was warm enough for families  to be at the pool and for us to do some exploring.   

Lots of gardenia and plumeria and chickens everywhere on the island.   

 The breaks in the rain and later sunny days allowed us to get out and do a beautiful trail along the ocean twice.    Partly paved by the hotels , it then meanders in the jungle for much of it and I had to use the AllTrails app to find our way....no danger of getting lost but the main trail is much better than the rocky and sandy side trails that often ended in cliffs over the water.   Fortunately no snakes on the island altho it looked like a perfect setting.    And no bugs.... few stray cats.  And always, the ubiquitous chickens.  

And now we are home and it is snowing and very holiday looking and I must get busy.    But we have great memories and need to do it again.

Anyone still out there ?

I'm not sure that a personal blog of an 80 year old is relevant in today's onslaught of social media.   But that is really not the point, is it.   Of course, we all want to be relevant to our family and our friends but otherwise.......nope.     

I follow a blog written by an 80 something woman in Boston.    She is writing about her daily life and it is a wonderful look at aging in a positive manner.      She is highly educated and continues to seek out learning opportunities available at the various excellent schools in Boston.    She was married for many years and her husband decided to leave life when his Parkinson's and infirmities became more than he wanted to deal with.    He withheld food but accepted Hospice care.      A few years ago they decided to move closer to one of their sons.    They sold their beloved condo, moved to a vibrant city, actively participated in the grand children and after a year, decided it just wasn't how they wanted to spend their later years and moved back....buying a condo in the same building if I remember.     She is an honest window into aging.  

Meanwhile, in this aging home, we are well.    We need to get out a bit more and travel more but sometimes home feels best.   I look at ideas for exploring and then maybe think we should be part of group if we go across the seas.... ( that age thing again).    We've been most everywhere in the US but a repeat of some of them would be fine on our own.    Somedays, I miss the RV life....not the BIG RV life but just something smallish.   An off road camp in the mountains or the favorite hiking places in Utah ..... 

My classes at the Botanic Gardens are over.   I could take many more but I learned what I wanted and certainly don't need validation ( a certificate ) to say I can do it.    I still enjoy capturing a plant but lately, I've discovered animals.    I have never had any interest but then suddenly I did.   I spend my days studying excellent sites for learning all the intricacies and capturing a dog or cat or bird or whatever.    I have practiced and spent hours trying to decipher dog hair..... it's not just brown or black.   For now, I won't show any results as they are family animals and I'm not ready to share with family.  

This kind of sums up learning a new skill......

And, here's our college freshman..... all dressed up for the UND Pride of the North marching band.   

 This week he has been on a bus band trip to a football game in Boise..... with stops in Yellowstone and assorted sites.    College sure is different from my days.    But so glad he is in a good place and appreciates his grandma's care package so he doesn't starve.  

And now I have to spend my afternoon wondering if the Denver Broncos really are new and improved...so far they have a lot to prove.      BUT, what about those CU Buffs !!!    I remember the old glory days of the Buffs and then the loooooonnnnng drought.....  it's fun to watch the turnaround and the circus that it is.  

Days of July......

This post is a rambling assortment of not much..... 

 I would love to knit and wear this luxurious shawl....except I'd need to be tall, thin and have long dark hair.    

Pictures are out of order. 

We went to the Front Range for the 4th.    Telly was more photogenic than usual.   

And then we came home to more tomatoes.    Both the cherries and the regular ones are smaller than I'd expected but still full of flavor.   I'm hand watering every day now with the winds and hot weather.  

Thurs night concerts have started up in Ridgeway.   It was a beautiful evening.   The opening act was a guy from Appalachia and a guy from Venezuela who played a harp.   It actually worked and had a little little Spanish flavor mixed with blue grass.   The next group was a female trumpet player, with British accent, who along with 2 guys played upbeat Mexican rhythms.   The crowd was on its feet dancing.   The announcer said they are going for more diverse groups this year and it was very fun.    

Back to the 4th.    Becca and Michael became engaged !!    The ring is a mix of old and new and is so delicate and lovely.   They are a perfect couple and a joy to be around.  

 

And Aspen can pose as well.   She always looks so wise and above it all.  

And then we went to a charity event, in an old schoolhouse out in the country on Sunday.   Hot and crowded but good to catch up with many.     And today, the word is being passed of all the positive COVID tests.    And yes, I am among them.    I suspect many more will be gifted based on so many just today.    My symptoms are pretty mild and the sore throat is gone but the fatigue and cough linger.     We were just boosted in June.   
 

Graduation, walks in the woods, being a tourist.....

A beautiful evening for Newtown Connecticut  High School Class of 2023 graduation.   And, the last of the grandchildren to transition to an exciting future.    Mason will become an Aviation major at the University of North Dakota.   His father graduated from there (same degree)   and his grandmother spent her freshman year there way back in 1961. !!     UND is considered one of the best school for aviation.      And for those of you who keep track, yes, that is my official graduation attire....however, humidity is lethal to my thick hair.  

And then we went for a walk in the woods..... this is my favorite place.    So green, so mossy and with interesting mushrooms and lichens along the way.   The state flower, mountain laurel, was in full bloom.  

Lake Zoar appears at the end of one trail along with the waterfall....water was fairly low but the lovely brooks were bubbling along and deep enough for Murphy to splash around in.   

The frog was small but struck a good pose.

Murphy always looks his best.

And then we came home and were greeted my first perfect cherry tomato..... life is good.   

We did go into NYC to the Statue of Liberty and Ellis Island.    Mary Beth's brother and Susan came to celebrate Mason so we explored these landmarks.     Lots of walking and ferry rides and stunning views.... At the Statue, they allow access to the pedestal, up to her feet.   It's 195 steps.   I decided to walk up and about halfway came to a family of teen girls and parents...... the girls were complaining mightily about the climb.   I finally said, " If I can make it, you can make it..... I am 80".     They all turned to look at me  and were generous in their comments.    and we continued upward , quietly.....    

I'm reading "H Is For Hawk"..... actually bought it in book form as I think it would be a good reread someday.   So far I'm learning a bit about training goshawks and her meditations on nature.   Also, listening to "Lady Tan's Circle of Women" by Lisa See.   It's OK and an easy listen on my walks and on airplanes.     The narrators voice is a bit irritating and hoping the story line improves.     I plan to reread "Covenant of Water" when P is finished.   There are so  many books on my TBR list.....
 

Iris, peonies and lupine..

Still here..... one never knows when you get this old.                    And, I've followed this directive quite nicely and have no fear of being kidnapped based on the scale's message.     But, I'd prefer pie.  

I have very painful arthritic fingers/hands.    In order to play golf, I need to take a Motrin prior.    I find that annoying.    A fellow golfer showed off these golf gloves and said they were wonderful for her hands.   So, I ordered one for each hand and wore them for league play yesterday.     They are very compressive....have no idea what the copper does.   BUT, I did not take drugs and wore these gloves and I had no pain !!    I was impressed.    As I said, they fit very tightly.     And then I took them off and the pain came back with a vengeance....but tolerable if I'm not needing them to grip a club.  I found it to be an interesting experiment and will continue to use them.     Fortunately, I can knit and draw and paint without wearing golf gloves.    

For the long time subscribers to this blog....and no, the price isn't going up...... you may remember that we once did exciting hikes with our Cobble Creek Hiking Club.    We even went on overnights and climbed among the mountains on high trails and in thin air.    The Club has gradually diminished as most of us have aged and some younger ones have moved on.    But it still does a weekly hike and I finally got off the couch and joined them.     Last week, while some did part of the Perimeter Trail in Ouray (rocky and strenuous), I stayed lower and several of us did the river walk.    The river is running very high and fast 

and it was a perfect walk.  

Meanwhile, back at the homestead, the tomatoes are showing up.     I have about 8 tomatoes on 2 plants.   The plants really haven't grown much but lots of yellow flowers and the growing fruits.   I worried that they were getting too much sun and tried an umbrella as some suggested that they needed shade.    Of course, the umbrella would not stay put and I gave up.     A friend has many tomato plants and she never shades them ...... 

The iris are abundant  and now the peonies are showing up.    The roses are covered in buds.  

And so today, I went on a 2nd outing with the Hiking Club.   ( hiking wardrobes are not always flattering) Today, we went up to the top of a mesa near Ridgeway and walked two trails.     The Meadows trail meanders thru the pines and the wildflowers were just beginning their spring bloom.    Lupine everywhere.   

 

The Escarpment trail leaves the pines and abruptly comes to the edge of the mesa overlooking the green valley and the San Juans in the distance.   The trail then stays on the edge for most of it and the views are nonstop...... We did almost 4 miles.    The weather was perfect, 59 degrees at 8000 ft.     The group split and some just did the Meadows but I was determined and did them both.    Being the oldest, by at least 5 years, I was pleased that I could keep up altho I did slow more than I wanted on the uphills.   

 Finished the "Covenant of Water"..... I may need to reread it to better absorb the nuances but I thought it excellent.     I'm listening to "Remarkably Bright Creatures", starring an octopus and a 70 year old cleaning lady at the aquarium.   It's a good listen.  

Fewer hummingbirds this year.    Others on a Colorado bird sighting FB page are reporting the same.  And still mostly finches enjoying the feeders.    We do have a kingfisher who is fun to watch.    He hovers above the stream, his wings like large hummingbird wings, then dives straight down, splashes and presumably has a fish as he flies straight up.   I read that they drop dead fish into water to teach their young how to fish.  

Packing our bags for our pending trip this weekend.    Mason is graduating.... I think he has grown much too quickly.  

`Spring is here....

Just last week they were very tiny.....

I've resumed the feeding of the birds....but at a distance.    We still hear the occasional 'thump' against a window but no visible signs of injury or death to depress me.   This house finch is typical altho I did see a bullock oriole at the orange/jelly feeder..... will try for pictures.   

And the hummingbirds arrived on schedule.    We have both blackchinned and broadtail.   

When we go to CT, I love the wander in the forest.   I have read several books on trees, lichens and fungus and their important role.    And, I have sketched them.    And then, a box arrived and this was inside !!    Jon remembered and shared some recent finds....always love the turkey tail.    They will last (with some loss of color) for as long as I want them as models.    I attended a Zoom talk by an artist who concentrates on painting lichens..... her preparation and complex approach to capturing the detail was truly amazing....I'm content to admire my sketches.   

An evening sky......

And then we went to Front Range to celebrate Lizzie's big achievement.    We had wonderful family times with a big gathering of grands and great grands..... 

 And so we are home for a couple weeks before we fly East to celebrate Mason.     The neighborhood is busy with construction on every empty lot it seems,  including across the street.   And soon new neighbors will build next door.   I keep up on my morning walks.   

Golf is going well.   I indulged  in some shopping when we were in the land of stores this weekend.    I'm between sizes so finding  golf clothes was time consuming.    And, I'm buying more long sleeves to protect from this searing sun.  

One of my favorite books is "Cutting for Stone".    The author came out with a new one last week, "Covenant of Water".....so far it's very good and I'm actually reading it instead of listening to it.   And almost done listening to John Irving's "The Last Chairlift".    It's strange, as are all of his and I'm not sure I would recommend it unless you are a fan of his style... plus it's very long.  

A bird mystery.....

I decided to feed the birds this year.   We've always had hummingbird feeders and I usually keep 3 near the windows and the patio. So far, none have shown up this year

but they will..... 

I went to the Wild Birds Unlimited store to learn about feed and came home with a less messy variety and I have been pleased that it seems to leave very little residue on the ground.    We put this feeder and another in front of our family room windows and have enjoyed their antics.    Mostly we get house finches and they are colorful and lively.    

Today, I looked out our large kitchen windows and found NINE birds sprawled on the patio.    These windows are under the upper deck and the feeder is out farther in the yard.    I had one very dead robin (they don't eat from feeders) and 8 finches in various stages of dead and stunned.    I was shocked and saddened.      I immediately removed the feeders.     We left the birds undisturbed and in the end, 4 managed to right themselves and wander off.    I'm not optimistic they will survive.    

So now, I'm feeling quite guilty and sad.    I will move the feeders to the perimeter of the yard and just have the hummingbird feeders by the family room.    I just got an oriole feeder and undecided if and where I will put it out.   

Birds are just amazing and especially the happy little finches.   We also have chickadees, cedar waxwings, kingfishers, crows, an occasional grackle, lots of swallows over the pond,  doves, hawks circling and lots of robins.     Most of those won't come to the feeders but I have my bird books and binoculars nearby to try and identify more of them.    

My straw bale is ready to plant and I am trying to decide on tomato varieties.   I can only plant a few things and will put some bright flowers around the sides.   It won't camouflage it at all but if I put in nasturtium and marigold it might help as a repellent.   I have to figure out a deer cover.   

Our Ladies golf league started yesterday.   It was 35 degrees and ominous but we bravely went forth.   Our group and most others lasted about 7 holes before rain, wind and probably some snow forced us in.... a luncheon followed with hot soup to start and lots of cupcakes to make us feel better. 

With uncertain weather, I'm using the treadmill most days.   I kind of miss the morning walks to check out the changing trees and pending flowers.   But it sure is nice to walk in my pjs.   And it's about time to get on my bike !!

Update:

More birds have hit the windows....I had the feeders  farther back and we had way too many birds.   And then they started flying into the windows again so I removed it all.     I'm puzzled as this has rarely happened in the past.   And I'm sad, for the dead and injured birds and for the loss of enjoyment from watching and identifying them.     The hummingbirds have returned and I will keep their feeders up.   

 

Spring is in the air..... along with miserable allergies

Yes, that is a straw bale sitting in our yard.    I am not a gardener and I would never plant a garden.    But, after seeing the results of Jon's successful Straw Bale Gardening efforts the last few years, I decided to take the plunge.    I got a book and joined a FB group.    Jon and Mason came to visit (after skiing at Vail) and he helped with the purchase and placement of a single bale.  Most people have several bales in rows.    It needs to be in the sun and have water available.    I wanted to make it more inconspicuous but then decided that golfers aren't critiquing my yard when they are really trying to avoid the pond in the background.     I have started the 'conditioning' process which takes about 2 weeks.    It involves fertilizer and warm water.    Then I will be able to plant cool weather plants ( peas, kale, lettuce etc) and once the chance of frost is past, I will put in tomatoes .... maybe peppers.     I will stick some flowers in the sides to brighten it up a bit.    There shouldn't be any weeds.      I can use the bale for 2 years before it deteriorates.     Stay tuned......

There is still plenty of snow around and with the warmer temps, there is fear of flooding and falling rocks and assorted dangers.    We will stay  off the mountain roads.    

April brings a birthday and this year it is a MAJOR one.    I feel fortunate that I am still upright and healthy and reasonably aware of my surroundings.    In order to stay that way, I need to continue my exercise level and coming back from AZ to windy, cold weather made that difficult.   So I requested a treadmill for my BD gift.    It arrived yesterday and after waving $$$$, the delivery guys agreed to carry the large, very heavy box upstairs.    It will go into my large bonus room,..... now called the TV lounge, the exercise gym, the art room, the library and the sewing nook.     I am happy to have all that space.   

And more than happy to have my favorite handyman around.....

Mason had to take his turn driving the 50+ year old Beetle.   It has its share of issues but ably goes to the pickleball courts and beyond.   

Winter hangs on....

These are  a few of my favorite things..... I found these owls in a garden shop in CT at Christmas.    They had several different varieties but they were pricy.    I came back after the holiday and they were 50% off and now they are very happy in Colorado.  They are made with feathers and very fluffy and soft.   And I'm not thinking about where all those feathers came from...... I'm assuming
it was an old pillow. 

Only in Colorado do you see people shoveling snow in shorts.    He fits right in except he doesn't have his sandals with socks on.     

Mountains are still getting feet of snow, the spring winds are starting up and the trees are budding.